Hello, everyone,
Some of the closer friends, who know the story of my life, have told me, how admirable it is that in spite of the Traumas of the Wars, which took place in Israel, during my early
childhood, I can still have "A great sense of humor and such a positive outlook on life!"... The truth is, that I don't believe my life in Israel was bad at all... On the contrary; I had a wonderful and magical childhood;
filled with adventures laughter and joy! To begin with; I was very loved by my parents and our large extended
family. Being the youngest of the cousins, I enjoyed the special attention reserved for the "babies"... I have a few faded memories of myself as a toddler, sitting on the floor, playing with my toys, watching my mom walking back and
forth between the two bedrooms of our small apartment, which consisted of a tiny "Salon" (living room) my parents small bedroom, the smaller room, my older brother and I shared and a tini kitchen... I loved to watch my "Ima"(Mom) making up the beds, dusting, wiping
the floor, cooking and from time to time stops to talk to me, stroke my hair or give me a kiss... She was often singing, together with the songs on the radio, songs in Hebrew and others from the movies:“Put the blame on Mame, boy.." and the Spanish song "Bésame, besame mucho!"(Love me, love me a lot!)
In the middle of the "Salon" (Our living room) stood the polished wooden table, covered with a thick clear glass...Underneath the glass, was a display of many black and white photographs. My parents, me and my brother Rami, our extended families and a few of my parents close friends. love to look at them Most of the photos
were taken in Israel, the others show a few family members, who live in Europe and the United States. Most of the people in the photos were wearing strange clothes and hats.Putting family photos, under the table's glass (Rather then Photo Albums) was quite common in many houses, during those days... My mother would cover the gtable, with a plain white Tablecloth for our meals and with a special colorful, hand embroidered table clouth, when guests were coming over...
I remember my father, sitting for hours at this table (during his free time) surrounded by white paper erasers,
pencils, strange rulers and other instruments... He was making scatches of his "Invention", which he called His 'Patent'... Years later I would learn that my dad was trying to invent a device, which could collect the powerful energy of 'Gravity', in order to
start a Motor going... This 'dream', kept alive his hopes for a better future for his small family, a dream which unfortunately never materialized, but it gave him hope and kept him afloat, during some dark and
hard periods of life...
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The photos under the glass...
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In later years my brother Rami and I, who were supposed to do our homework on this table, would get distracted by the photos of Ima and Aba's young faces, as well as those of our grandparents, aunts, uncles cousins and family friends,which were staring at us from beneath the
glass... They looked very serious, no one was smiling except for my Mom, the rest seemed to be worried or even a bit
scared... My brother and I often made fun of these photos, mimicing their expressions and were laughing at their strange outfits and 'Hairdos', until we would hear Ima's familiar scolding: “ Stop looking at the photos and
finish your homework!”
I have a vivid memory, of one winter evening in our small apartment which was crowded with my parents' friends, who came
to play cards... Before the game they would sit around the table, which was covered with a fancy embroidered tablecloth (saved for gusts) eating oranges and tangerines ( in the winter), drinking coffee or tea and enjoying my mom's "Vegetarian cake", which was made out of whole wheat flour nuts and raisens, switened with honey and cinnamon...(no refined sugar in my mother's kitchen...) In the summer, there were watermelon and melon, slices of apples,
pears plums berries and grapes (In adition to my mom's famouse cake...) Most of the men, were smoking cigarettes and everyone was shrieking with laughter, at my
father's jokes, written alphabetically in his notebook...
I can see myself, around the age of three, standing next to the table, or sitting on one of my parents knees, curiously watching what was going on, while sucking my right hand thumb. A very short man named Beny (whom I named "The Little Man") was
always teasing me by offering His thumb to suck on, saying it tastes better then mine... I recall how I once touched one of the gusts bold head and said that it looks like the Moon and was rewarded by fits
of laughter and hand clapping.For a moment I felt like a grownup,who was just accepted to this private, exclusive, mysterious club of the Adult World and then I began to worry that they were laughing At Me and began to cry...
Someone would always start singing out loud, while playing the card game and the rest would join
in, singing or humming... Others, would drum on the table with their fingers and frown at their cards, or complain that one of the women was too slow, to which she responded; "What's the
rush? I am thinking!" "Since when do you think?" her husband said, triggering muffled laughter, from the players and angry response from his hurt wife... “Stop it, let's
play and have fun!" My Dad, the Peace Maker, would say and the game resumed. When finally, the winner declared
victory, standing up and triumphantly slamming his cards on the table, there would be a collective shout of protest: “Oh No! No!!
I was just about to finish!" The people would lay down their cards, pointing out how close they were to win the
game, looking at each other's cards, discussing what move they should have taken and commiserate over their
bad luck, while the beaming winner would collect the bronze pennies,which the players previously left in the small
plate at the center of the table and were now, watching the lucky winner, with different expressions of jealousy on their face...
After a while, it was time to stand up and stretch, light a cigarette and sip the fresh tea Ima would
bring from the kitchen, with additional slices of her freshly baked, healthy honey Cake; "Made with whole wheat flour, honey,
raisins, nuts and a pinch of cinnamon"... "Wow! This is a great cake! Better than the cakes at Cafe'
Kapulski!!" The guests would exclaim, smacking their lips as they tasted the "Healthy Cake" while Ima, blushing
prettily, would say: "Well, I don't know if it tastes as good as the cakes at Kapulski Cafe', but I know for sure that it
is much healthier!" A conversation would start about different topics, which would always end up with the second world war, taking place in Europe, cursing Hitler in Hebrew and Yidish, Russian, polish, English and even in Arabic... "May
this dog Hitler rot in his grave!" "His grave? A grave is too good for this monster! He should be caught
and slowly tortured to death! But it seems that this 'Angle of Death' is unstoppable! Not only is he
devouring most of Europe, he is now moving into Egypt!" "Oh my God, he is getting closer and closer to us,
the border with Egypt is not that far! All we need now, are Germans marching through the gates of
Jerusalem, God forbid!"
Someone would noticed me standing by with my eyes wide open, frightened and confused by the change of mood in the room and alerted the others... They would then smile and laugh again, stroke my hair, hug me, pinch my cheeks and say: "Don't worry Buba'le (Little doll) We'll take care of you! You are safe here with us! Everything will be alright, God is on Our side, and he will help us destroy this monster Hitler may he burn in hell!!"
On evenings like these I didn't want to go to sleep, even though my eyes were burning and I was having a hard time keeping them open... Eventually, I was carried to bed by one of my parents, followed by a chorus of calls,
“Goodnight sweetheart... sleep well, sweet dreams!" I would lie under my soft blanket and listen to the sounds of laughter and familiar comforting voices and was feeling peaceful and safe... I didn't
know, that these ""Big adults'" in my life were terrified, since many of them, did not hear from their families who lived in Europe, for
several years... Looking at me, reminded them of their nephews and nieces and wounder if the kids and their patents were still alive...The conversation
around the table turned to the latest information about the war, which was on the radio, published in newspapers and in the theater, before the movie began... bNazi Germany has been devouring one European country after
another and was rapidly advancing towards the Middle East... "How long do you think, it will take before they enter
Jerusalem?" everyone was wondering ... Across the thin wall, I was snuggling in bed with Duby, my one ear teddy bear, enjoying the comforting and
familiar sounds coming from the other room and was peacefully drifting in to sleep...
On Saturdays we would go to visit Saba, dad's father, in the Old Age
Home... I don't know who was older, the building or the people living inside...The stone building was surrounded by old, dusty pine trees and stone fence, on which I liked to climb and walk, holding on to my father's hand... A long corridor was covered with black and white tiles, led us to the main building, which was decorated with dusty geraniums in old clay pots. Inside was a line of ten, white iron beds, standing side by side on each side of the long room, which smelled of medicine and disinfectant... In one of those
beds was lying my beloved "Saba" My grandfather Eliyahu Cohen, Aba's dad!
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My beloved Saba |
Saba's hair was white as snow and his soft
beard, was fluffy as a cloud. I loved to play with his beard! I
would comb it with my little fingers and clumsily tried to tie it
with the ribbon which I removed from my hair... Saba's eyes were light blue, the color of
the sky on a summer day... They expressed peace and patience, but above all his love to me... The intensity of this love was so
strong, that when he looked at me, it felt like a physical
caress... My Saba would hum melodies in my ear and tell me stories by
drawing little cartoon characters, with a special pencil, which he put in
his mouth from time to time, in order to make it wet... Once, when I was about
four years old, I said to him; "You know what Saba? Old people and babies are the same"..." He smiled "Tell
me how so my 'ziese meydel'e." (Yiddish for 'sweet little girl') "Well,
old people are like babies, because they don't have much hair on their
head, their skin is very soft and sometimes they sit in a carriage, just like
babies and are pushed around... Oh, wait Saba! There is more! Old people and babies have no teeth this is why they must eat porridge..." I can still feel the
joy in my heart, as I listened how my Saba, was proudly telling my parents and
his friends in the long room, what I have just said!! It made me feel very
important, smart and grown up, especially since I was the youngest in our extended family and therefor was always treated as a baby...
As we grew older, Rami and I used to play in our street, with the neighborhood kids... Whenever we
had an extra coin, we would run to David's small candy shop! Even though we were told by our veterinarian parents, that
refined sugar is poison, we couldn't resist! Whenever we had a few coins, we would rush to the candy store, looking behind us, to make sure we are not being followed by our parents, like some of the 'bad guys" that we saw
in the movies... After several times of eating the 'forbidden sweets' and realizing
that neither of us dropped dead from "Sugar poisoning", we would sneak into the small shop as often as we could (when we had money)... The store belonged to a nice old man,
Mr. Klinman, who stood behind the counter and knew, which candy, each of the neighborhood kids liked...I
don't remember my brother Rami's favorite, mine was a pink little candy doll, the size of my thumb,which would melt in
my mouth with out even chewing it, melting much too fast...
The high light of our life was going to the Cinema! (Movie theater) It always began with the news bulletin, (which we couldn't wait for it to come to the end)... Who cared about Churchill or Stalin? Hitler and the war, it was all far away from us, children, who shrieked
with joy, when Mickey Mouse or Donald Duck appeared on the screen... We loved the movies! "The thief of Baghdad, National Velvet and
Lassie Comes Home..." We particularly liked Gangster movies and imitated them in our games later on; Chasing one another
up and down the streets of our neighborhood, waving a piece of wood as a gun and yelling: “Hanzap!”
(Hands up). The summers in Jerusalem were hot and dry, filled with the voices of vendors who came to our street with carts, pulled by donkeys... They were offering Watermelons, Sabras (cactus pears) Corn on the cob and cut up Sugar Canes... Others came pushing carts and offered to sharpen knives and scissors and old clothes,shoes and
other household goods... The Ice wagon, pulled by a donkey, created a lot of excitement, among the neighborhood kids...The "Iceman" removed the burlap sacks,which were covering the ice, and cut it for the Ice box (No electric refrigerators in those days...) The kids would fight over the bits of ice, which fell from the wagon, licking them as if they were "Escimos!" (Popsicle's"...
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Rami and I in the Snow |
The winters in Jerusalem were cold, the smell of roasted chestnuts, drifted from the portable coal stove of the vendors. At home we would huddle around the kerosene stove, play indoor games, eat hot soups and warm porridge with honey and cinnamon... On the few rare occasions when it snowed, we would go outdoors, to make snowmen and throw snow
balls
at each other... Before we left our home, Ima (Mom) would wrap the two of us in sweaters, coats, scarves, hats and
earmuffs... She also made us wear gloves, wool socks and boots until we could barely move, like the little brother
in the movie A Christmas Story, which I would repeatedly watch after moving to the U.S...
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On the beach
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Life had its rhythms and rituals: School, holidays, birthday, celebrations and summer vacations! We visited our families, who lived in the"Shfela"(low land) Tel Aviv, Hulon, Rechovot, Biniamina, Givat-Ada and Ramat-Gan. We loved the beach, where Romi and I chased the waves and joyfully
splashed
each other, being watched by the strict eyes of our parents... Our Aba (Dad) usually took off, to swim towards the far
away
rocks and our worried mom, who didn't know how to swim, was standing on the shore and yelling to us: "Don't go too deep! Stop
pushing
each other under the water!! Keep your hats on, the sun is boiling hot today! Watch out for whirlpools! and stay close to
the shore, so I can see you !"
This was more or less the way my life was flowing, until the Second World War finally came to an end and shortly after, the War of Independence began...
With Love and Light,
Shira