. The End or rather a new begining...) SABA ELYHU. (x Photos Karen, Eliya and me at 82 ) X photos of lemons , lemonad and myself at eighty two

     I never considered myself to be a 'Religious' person:, a 'Spiritual' one' yes!). I could never agree      with some of the Biblical Commandment, which the 'Orthodox Jews interpreted as:"Do not drive on the Sabbath!" which was our one and only Day of Rest!  My small family of four, seldomly went Synagogue except  during the the' High Holiday' of 'Yom Kippur'; the "Day of Atonement"...We celebrated the Jewish Holidays with our extended family members, of beloved 'Uncles, Aunts and Cousins, who lived in the three 'Main Cities' of Israel; Jerusalem, Haifa and Tel Aviv, as well two Agricultural Settlements in Israel  Since I was the youngest among my cousins, I enjoyed the attention, usually given to the family's Baby'    I am proud to say that I was not at all Jealous, when my baby cousin 'Ahuvale'' was born and 'Took Away' my place as the 'Family's Baby... On the contrary; I 'fell in love' with her tiny fingers, soft blond hair, blue eyes and rose colour lips! She would become my 'Living Doll!'  

   As I grew up, my 'Greatest Wish' was to discover the 'Big World', which I heard and read about in        the books I brought home from the library... I was especially intrigued with the United Stats of America    which was 'Waiting for me', outside Israel, my small country of birth, which was sharing borders with three Hostile Arab Neighbors: Egypt, Jordan and Syria; which were fighting and trying to conquer our tiny and vulnerable country time and again... As I grew up I decided to become a 'Psychologist' and Just like my Vegetarian Parents, I was always looking for 'Unconventional ways' of healing; like "Voice Dialogue 'Hypnotherapy' and several others.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             After ompleting the two years of my Military Service, I came to the U.S.A, where I registered at the University of Detroit and was earning a living, by teaching Hebrew, Bible and Jewish History, at the local Hebrew School on the afternoons... Years later, after I becoming a Psychologist, I would discover 'Clinical Hypnotherapy', which became my most important 'Tool of Healing'... My office walls were decorated with the many 'Diplomas', I gathered throughout the years; among them was a short Special Praye I particularly liked: "Dear God; grant me the Srength to accept the things I can not change; the Courage to change the things I can and the Wisdom to know the difference"

   As time passed by, I learned that "The End of the World" does not necessarily have to be some thing bad,  it actually means 'The End of Disagreements, Separation, Fear, Hatred and Wars!' Those who may  be worried or frightened, are told that x"All you have to do, is try to forget that you 'Can not Remember'    At times, when my 'Inner child' seems to be sad or worried, I would whisper to it:"Cheer up kid and listen to the following 'Old Saying': If life is giving you Lemons; you could always make Lemonade!"   X(photo of lemons and lemonade)

  Throughout our Life's Journey we may experience periods of great Joy, as well as Disappointments      like the time I got sick and had to stay home, while my Classmates were going on the Yearly School Trip  which was the 'High Light' of the Year... People may forget some of their 'Unfulfilled Dreams and Wishes', but they always remember, the Pain we felt after finding out that the 'One we Love, is 'In Love' with 'Someone else'... As I write these lines, Israel my beloved country of birth, is once again 'Fighting for it's Survival'  just as it did during the 'War of Independence', when I was only four years old...     

   This current war seems to be one of the most dangerous wars, Israel ever experienced. Never before   did I doubt Israel's ability to 'Win the War!' Now however, for the first time, things seem to be different The Arab countries which are sharing with Israel three borders; Syria, Egypt and Lebanon, never hid their desire to destroy this tiny country and were trying to do so time after time, since 1948, when  the United  Nations, declared Israel  to be a "Legitimate Country for the Jewish People"! "Since then, this young small country, was defeating it's enemies, again anad again, by 'paying' with the lives of young Israeli solders     I have always worried about the future of my 'Country of birth', feeling guilty for living comfortably in 'Suny California', while my beloved Israel, was going through threats  and wars for it's existence, time  and time Again... 

   During this lingering war, all I was able to do, besides worrying and mourn the loss of all the young  solders, was to wish it will soon be over and pray for a 'Final and Lasting Peace' in the Middle East. I was  always able to feel the pain, of those who lost a 'Loved One' in the wars and later on felt guilty, for living safely in the United Stats, while Israel, the small country I love so much, is being attacked time and time  again; being forced to fight for its life!  As the years passed by, I have learned that 'Death', is not the "End  of the World", but could actually be a New Beginning!" We have been told that Death is a 'Corridor' to the next Dimension'... It is 'Heart Breaking' to witness the suffering of so many people, when all I can do to help, is sending donations and pray for a"Lasting Peace in the Middle East", as well as opening  the door to the "5th Dimension", the peaceful new home, we are supposed to arrive, after our  death...  

  On December 7th, I slipped in our garden and broke my left leg... It was the same day when Israel's  latest war began... Many people in the U.S (mostly my age group) were suffering from Health Issues  which are typical to 'Old Age'. I was staying at home going over my Blog and  correcting mistakes and dealing with the pain of my 'Broken Ankle'...  I  have written before, that one of the greatest pleasure during my childhood, was to spend time with my beloved Grandfather; 'Saba Eliyahu'! Many years      later, after my Granddaughter learned to talk, I would say to her:"I am your Savta Ellie. (Grandma in Hebrew )"What are you to me little Elly?" And was listening with delight to her 'Baby Voice' saying "Savta, don't  you remember how you always say that I am the 'Love of Your Life?"

   I would like to share with you, dear readers, that after I turned Eighty, I was diagnosed with the beginning of "Dementia" ('Memory loss)... So far science was unable to discover a proper cure for this disease... I met with our Family's Lawyer, in order to find out if there is a legal, peaceful way, to "Get    out of the Body"; when this 'Dementia' begins to take over. By the way, one of the great gifts I received   at my birth was a 'Complete Freedom from Fear!'  Besides Traditional Therapy, I was always looking for new unconventional ways of Healing; like Clinical Hypnotherapy, which became the 'Main Tool' of my work, enabling me to remove my clients 'Emotional Pain', not only from the Present, but from their 'Past Lives' as well... By doing so, I was helping them to 'Let Go' of the painful emotions, people carry as a result of a painful 'Past Life' periods of time... My dad once told me that when people get old: "Life seems to pass by way to Fast!" This is the reason we should always be grateful for the 'Good Times' we were blessed with and pray for more to come; not only for ourselves, but for the Whole World, as well  as the people and the animals which are sharing it with us!  

   It is hard to believe that I have just written the 'Final Page' of my Book! I am experiencing a mixture    of Joy, Excitement and a great Satisfaction; mixed with a few drops of Sadness; since it is now the time      to say my final Good By... I wish to thank you dear readers, for allowing me to share with you my"Life Story" and wish I could help you remove some of the 'Pain and heavy Burdens', we are all face during our 'Life's Journey'  to the Fifth Dimension... Because of my 'Advancing age (82) there is a good chance, that  I may not have to wait in the 'Long Line to Paradise'... In such a caseI promise to save you a 'Good seat',X right next to me, before we take off... May we all enjoy a safe Journey to our up coming home in the Fifth Dimension! See you there!

 With love and light, Shira 

                                                     

                                                                         THE END  

                                                          ( Or rather a New Beginning )                                                                                                                                             

                                                                  

                                                                      

 

Almost the end OO Musical notes photos of gusts from around the world..(?). XX picture of VX

Hello everyone,

   For a while I was 'encouraged' by few of my Blog Readers, to turn my blog in to Book... It seems          as if you had a very Interesting Life, Shira!...You should write a book about it!" X"xI was repeatedly    told... "What do you mean by 'Had'? I still Do!" Came my astonished answer... Unlike some in my Age group (82) I feel lucky to be in "Good Health") Relative to my Age Group...) I have recently noticed, that my 'Sense of Humor,' was 'Down a bit'...  after having an 'Unpleasant moment' of 'Memory Loss' (Just when a I needed "Humor" the most!) Encouraged by my doctor as well as family members and close  friends, I took a test for the possibility of Dementia or Alzheimer.  Unlike most people in my age group, my memory is still strong (most of the time )... After my last check up, I  was advised by my Primary doctor to make an appointment at Cedar Sinai Hospital, for a Memory Loss Test, which lasted 'Five Hours'...By the time this ordeal was over I was not only tired, I was 'exhausted'!  I could see the concerned looks of my family members and friends ,X and was trying to cheer them up by joking:x"The best thing about memory loss is forgetting we are losing it"... I told them .X

  I was surprised, when Dr R. left me a message;  asking for Rabbi Karen Deitsch (my daughter) to       call   him in order to discuss my Test Results..."Why does he want to talk to my daughter and not to me?"I        was wondering... Karen, who called me after their conversation, sounded very calm (a bit too x calm...)  "What did the doctor tell you Karen? Is it Dementia, Alzheimer or half and half?" I was joking, but she did not laugh; insisting there will not be a final diagnosis, until I see one more doctor (another Specialist)  in order to come to the final conclusion... A month later, I took one more Test, which lasted One Hour Only!' (Thank God!) I have written before about my Cousin Marcia ;(actually Al's Cousin) who came with me to see the doctor, in order to discus the results of my Medical Tests."You sound more Nervous then me Marcia! Remember that I am /'Fearless Shira',  X Who is now facing one of the biggest Health Challenges, she ever faced and expects to come through with x"Flying colors!" 

   I have written before about my parents, who were among the 'Early Pioneers to established  the             First Vegetarian Village in Israel and refused to use fertilizers "which poison the vegetables and Fruit x "People should Never Eat Meat!"x My parents were saying x"Just think ofx the Terrible pain', which the poor animals experience, when they are slaughtered!  We have no right to make them suffer!  They want  to live just as much as we do!"X I was able to understand why people kill Snakes, or other dangerous creatures which may attack us, but what did the the poor cows, lambs, chickens and cute rabbits who never harmed any one do? x"How terribly cruel it is to cause them suffering and worst of all Eat Them!" Some of the parents came to our house complaining, that because of me, their kids are refusing to "Eat Meat"! It gave my parents the opportunity, of trying to convert as many as they could, to Vegetarianism 

   My vegetarian parents were practicing 'Meditation', which they learned from books, way before it became very popular in the Western World. There was a large library in our house about Health and Proper Eating, How to avoid Toxic food, Say No to Western Medicine! You are what you Eat!" and      few others... Eventually, I would 'Inherit' all these books, since my 'Meat Loving' brother who rebelled  against our parents and their "Crazy Vegetarianism!" declaring that he had no interest in these 'Stupid Books'!... Reading, was always one of my Greatest Passions! After Al and I got married, I did my best to  be a devoted loving wife and mother, while teaching Hebrew and 'Jewish Studies', at a local Hebrew School   We eventually left Puerto Rico and moved to Atlanta. Eventually our small family of three would settle down in Los Angeles ,California. Here I would eventually  become a "Clinical Hypnotherapist"... I kept  on studying and several years later, received my Ph.D. in Psychology... "It seems that Shira  never stopped going to school?!"  My youngest nephew told his parents with astonishment...  

  Throughout the years, Al and I created several groups of good friends in Los Angeles. Other friends   came to visit and stayed with us at our home for long or short visits. They arriving from New Jersey in the East Coast, where Al grew up, N.Y, Florida, Washington D.C, Puerto Rico, Israel, Italy and  France  We loved these visits which came to an end, when another 'Uninvited Guest', named  the" Corona Virus  Pandemic', arrived to  California  and was spreading around the Globe... The death toll was rising and people were hiding at home, afraid to go out...They were 'Glued' to the T.V screen, watching with horror how this new Pandemic, was sending thousands of sick people to over crowded Hospitals and Morgues  As the Death Toll from the Corona Virus was rising! Socializing came to a complete stop!  People no longer visited friends, had Dinner Parties and Barbecues at each others home, go to the theater, concerts  or other kind of gathering... Every one was horrified by this new disease, which was spreading like a wild fire all around the world!           

 X up

   Besides the Pandemic, other disasters were taking place around the Globe: Violence, Civil Unrest,      Political Corruption, Elections Fraud, Rape, Ban of Legal Abortions, Books were removed from the schools and libraries and Gun Control was declared! On the television set, people were watching Police Brutality' and the bitter Long War between Russia and Ukraine, which gave birth to fear and rumors of     an up coming of a Third World War! On the Television sets we could see wild fires, consuming forests  followed by torrential rain, floods and starving sick refuges, with their children, who escaped to the United States from the wars and poverty in their country of birth, hoping for a free, better life and have their hopes and dreams for a better future, crushed in front of their eyes, before being sent back to the country from which they fled,     

  After the Corona Pandemic came under control, I was finally able to deal with my deep pain, over         losing Al, my beloved husband and best friend of over fifty years... I went back to my work, specializing  in Clinical Hypnotherapy and Voice Dialog. At one point I became a bit concerned, about the strange "Forgetfulness" which was invading my brain from time to time...X"Why don't x you Meditate Shira, as you tell us to do, it really helps you know!" My clients were telling me after I shared with them my last diagnosis about the dementia.X"Did you forget that I am  Xfree of Fear!?" Came my answered... I have  admit, that in spite of my Bravery, I was finding myself going through 'Dark Moments' of my own' but I needed to my help my clients  and couldn't  afforded indulging in worries or fears and got over it fast!   

   I can't remember when I first noticed that "My Memory", which I was always proud of,  began to slow down... For the first time in my adult life, I was experiencing 'Real Fear...X"What if my Memory is going  to disappear and the doctors are unable to find a solution to the problem?"x I was always searching for Alternative Healing Methods, besides my work as a Psychologist and Hypnotherapist. I recommend "Proper Nutrition, Meditation, Acupuncture and other 'Natural Help', besides Conventional Medicine. I was always looking for the latest information about "Dementia", trying  to help my poor father, with the Memory Loss, he was suffering from and never stopped looking for new ways of healing, for my clients   friends, family members and now for myself...  

  I would like to invite you my dear readers, to visualize yourselves lifting up your glass  of wine and sing together, the familiar song from the Musical" Fiddler on the Roof":x"To Life   to Life Lechaim; Lechaim, Lechaim to Life!"! Then hold up your wine glass and add: "To    the Life in the Fifth Dimension!" xBelow are several photos of my granddaughter Eliya, the 'Dog Lover', who is holding, hugging and kissing the few dogs which belong to our small family in California and declaring she is going to become a Veterinarian!

Savta Shira with Eliyah	Eliyah and Koah	Eliyah with Moses	Eliyah and Bear

With Love and Light,
Shira

Unexpected Challenges. XX Photos below Add more V , Photo of Karen Eliya and me OO

Name/ photos of ambulance and hospital

Essie (Ace)

    Several weeks after my birthday celebration, my granddaughter Eliyah asked me to take her for a swim at our pool... After Al's passing, Karen asked Essie (his devoted care taker)    if he would stay in order to keep me company:X"So my Mom wouldn't be all by herself in such a big house"x... He gladly agreed! During his stay with us, Essie became a part of our family, this time ס however he was not at home and in spite of Ellie's protests, I insisted that ׳ ׳e wait for the swimming, until he comes backץץ X We should always have someone near by  when we go to swim!"X Explained the reason why... After Essie returned, the two of us got out of the pool and began to walk up the stairs, in order to change our wet bathing suit; when I slipped and began X tumbling down...  Even though I did not break any limb before; the sharp pain in my left leg told me it was broken! I called for Essie, who came running, נ instructed him to phone Karen and Greg (Karen's paכר tnter) and call an Ambulance... My pain told me ת  it was not just a was  allץץtaking place on ״December 7th״, when the horrifying Murder (rather slaughter) of young Israeli  צvacationersת  who were peacefully sleepingת   after celebrating an evening of singing and dancing, on their yearly vacation...

      During the commotion, my poor Granddaughter Ellie, was sitting on the sofa crying... In spite           of  my terrible pain, I did my best to comfort her: "I will be all right Sweetheart, don't be so scared            "I  slipped and hurt my leg, not a big deal!  Didn't You ever fall and hurt yourself?" I told her as calmly could  ('cringing' with pain)... "But I Heard you say that you think your leg is broken!" Eliyah answered   in a trembling voice."Don't worry my baby, even if it is broken, the doctor would fix it!" The ambulance took me to the 'Argent Care Clinic' and after a long (and painful) waiting, the X-Ray showed that my ankle was broken in two places...I was fitted with a Temporary Cast and instructed to stay in bed for the next two weeks, before coming back to find out how the ,roken נone was mending...x "In this case you most probably, have to undergo a surgery and be fitted with a cast"...x

   After returning home, I was sleeping most of the time; thanks to the powerful 'Pain Killer Medicine'    the doctors prescribed... Being an active person, made it challenging and frustrating to be restricted to  bed! My Spiritual Advisor Ellen said, that Humanity is about to move from the 3rd Dimension, which      is our present home, to the 5th  Dimension;our Spiritual Home.."Your job Shira, is to write a book to prepares people for this Highly Important up coming Event!" I was told by Ellen. However, until my accident, I did not find the time to write, since I was always busy with my family, clients and friends.        It seems as if the only way, to make me sit and write the book, was to " Break a leg, in order to 'Down  load me' with a New Information, regarding the upcoming big changes Humanity is about to go through

    In spite of my optimism and sense of humor, I was having doubts, regarding my"New Job" which seems to be 'Preparing People', for the up coming journey, to the 5th Dimension... In the meantime I     was 'Restricted to Bed'; experiencing a new and unfamiliar emotion, of feeling sorry for myse כ  I read       a lot, wrote in my blog, watched TV and was glad to see my friends and family members, who came to visit...  My "Playful Inner Child", was handing my visitors, crayons and markers, to 'decorating my Cast' a  request to which they enthusiastically agreed! It was amusing, to watch the 'childish excitement' on the face of my 'grown up' friends, whose playful inner kids', were suddenly set free...It seemed as if a door opened up, so they could go back in time, to the care free days of childhood, when there was nothing as exciting, as drawing on A Cast, which covered a broken leg...

  Two weeks later, the doctor called to informed me, that the Bone was not mending...         A Surgery would be necessary after all and I have to go back to Cedars Sinai... While        in the hospital, I befriended a few of the medical staff and was sharing with them the information about "Oneness Consciousness and Unconditional Love"...My new friends were nodding their heads hesitantly; probably wondering why I was not 'locked up' in        the Psychiatric Word... A handful of people (mostly from the Cleaning Crew) who were fascinated, by my Theories of the 'After Life'; asked for my phone number, so they could come for Hypnosis X Sessions...Back home I was lying in bed, using Al's old Wheel Chair to move around and feeling sorry for myself; an emotion, which was foreign to me... Even though, I was an avid reader, I found myself unable to concentrate; trying to find the right position for my Broken Leg, which was now, in heavy cast... I was restless and irritable, which was not at all like me, and was spending most of my time in bed; watching Television and programs I usually don't look at...

   On the morning of October 8th, I woke up early, feeling sorry for myself, after  restlessly turning around in bed, trying to find a more comfortable position ,for my broken leg; I turned on the television, which during these long weeks of isolation became my 'Life Line', to the outside world and was alarmed and shocked to learn about the Horrific Massacre, which took place at the Nova Festival in Israel, where women, men and children,were brutally attacked, raped or killed, then taken hostage to the Tunnels of Gaza...

   I began to call my family and friends in Israel, to find out, how they were all doing... It seems as if everyone was in a state of shock! As the days passed on, more terrifying information began to arrive describing the Brutality and Torture, the kidnapped Israelis, were experiencing, at the hands of "Hamas Terror Organization"... During the first three months after my surgery, when I was practically bed ridden my life lines, besides the telephone, included the American and Israeli television News Stations. In spite of my usual optimism, I was experiencing moments of deep sadness, unfamiliar loneliness and feelings   of loss and depression, trying my best, not to sink into Melancholy and Self pity...

   Many years ago, my mother told me, that "Turning Old is not a Picnic"... When Karen was a baby       Al and I used to fly to Florida, to visit his 'Widowed Father', as well as several aunts and uncles from  New Jersey, who moved to Miami after retirement; in order to escape the cold and freezing winters of        New Jersey... I was deeply touched by the joy and excitement, they all welcomed us and the Love they showered on our baby Karen... Their Loneliness and longing for their grandchildren in New Jersey, used  to break my heart... Now, after experiencing the loss of my own grandparents, parents, relatives, good friends and my husband; I was wondering, if during the time I become their age; it would be my turn to  go through the same Loneliness and Isolation...

   In order to shake away these gloomy thoughts, I would tell myself, the Magic Words:"Delete, Delete" and used the power of Positive thinking, as well as my Creative Imagination and Visualization, to chase these thoughts away... However, lying alone in bed and looking at the cast on my broken leg, did not do much, to encourage my 'Positive Thinker' to show up... What did help, was spending time with my tiny family of three; Karen, Greg and my sweet Granddaughter Eliyah:"The love of my life!"..."Talking to some  of my 'few friends' in the hospital, was very depressing; some were having a problem with their hearing and others, seemed to be suffering from different degrees of Dementia...I decided to go back to   start using again the 'Transcendental Meditation', I learned years before, at the 'Center of Actualization     I also allowed myself to shed a few tears ,when I was feeling sorry for myself ת ׳יןבי      often

   Several mouths would pass, before the cast was removed and I was able to walk again... Meantime        I  was mostly in bed, watching on T.V, the war in Israel, which was raging for months, as the hostages were held in the underground tuneless of Gaza... Israel seemed to be torn apart politically; many in the south of the country, were killed and woundeף :others, were evacuated to the center of Israel...It seemed  as if the whole world has been going Mad and the old, peaceful way of life ת we experienced until now will never come back...  The few friends in my age group (81) were   ס having all kinds of health issues ״Hearin. ס   Walking, losing their memory, getting in and out of hospitals and at one pא  ׳ forgetting who    I was...

   Our familiar way of life seemed to have changed forever! Waves of Antisemitism were spreading         in  the U.S, Europe and other parts of the world... Violent Demonstrations and Political Disagreements  taking place, almost on a daily basis... On the T.V. screen, we ׳קרק  watch ןמעt he violence and chaos in    High schools and Universities... Dark rumorsת  about an up coming Third World War,  ׳קרק spreading around like black clouds, pushed forward by the winds of Hatred... I kept on reminding myself that not "All is Bad;"שמג life seems to go on after all... Kids are busy with their games and Springת seems to be   on it's way  ready to paint over the 'Grayness' of winter ת  colorful flowers ת   rees, were wearing proudly  their New Green Leaves.... X" What is going to be with my poor little Israel?"X I was unable to stop watching the news, on the American and Israeli channels, which were covering the war in Gaza,and was worried about the kidnapped Israelis in Gaza; trying to keep in touch with my family members and the few close friends I still had in my beloved small and vulnerable countryף Israel...

   Even though I am not Religious, I often close my eyes and prey for Peace... Reminding myself that  Hope is stronger then Fear, Laughter wipes away Tears, Joy is greater then Sadness and Love overcomes Hate!  It was not always easy to be convinced...The recovery of my Broken Legת  was taking a long time  ס what about my Broken Heart? And feeling of guilt, for living in comfort and safety, in the U.S, while in Israel, the people I love, are exposed to daily dangerous......A year later, with the war in Israel still raging we celebrated my Granddaughter's Eliyah, seventh Birthday! "You know Savta" Eliyah said to me; "Six years old is still young, but Seven"... "Wait until you turn eighty  one!" I said pointing at myself... My "Ellie" burst into a loud laughter and gave me a big hug...

Celebration XX V, Photos Moved add a photo of me at eighty.(Al's age) OO

   Al and I bought our first home about a year after moving to California...It was a two-story red brick house, located in Studio City; with a small pool and room for a garden, where our three year old daughter, Karen,  'helped us' plant some flowers and carrots... We added a "swing set",  a small 'Play house' and were ready to 'Finally Settle Down'... Both Al and I were very social; we loved guests, enjoyed entertaining the new friends we made in L.A., and the visitors who flew in from  N.Y, New Jersey, Washington D.C, Puerto Rico, Italy and guests from Israel...We were able to convince  a handful of family members, from the East Coast; to join us as 'Permanent Residents' in our Sunny California: Al's younger brother Steve, who just graduated from Law School, in the east coast, came from New Jersey, to live near us, cousin Marcia, younger then me in two years, who became my beloved 'Cousin in Law 'Soul sister and 'Best friends'... I was delighted, to be a part of a warm and loving family with whom we would celebrate our holidays, birthdays, weddings, anniversary's and be together for one another in difficult and painful times ,which 'Life' may put on our way', from time to time...

   The years were passing by fast, before realizing it, our 'Little Karen' ,who lived for a while in            New Zealand, Australia and Israel, moved back to the U.S. to study at Hebrew Union Collage.               We never 'dreamt', that our  'one and only daughter', would become an Ordained Rabbi...Al and                 I found ourselves, going through the "Empty Nest Syndrome" and decided it may be time we             also  make a change...We began to look for the right house and eventually found one... It was       partially  built, which enabled us to  have our own input during the process of completing it!  The fact we were very busy with this new project, left us with little time, to worry about our ''Nomadic' Only Child, who was "Still Running all over the world!", just like the two of us did alone and together, so many years before...

   Our first house in Studio City was located at the Bottom of a tall mountain (No view). The new one       in Sherman Oaks, was built on Top of the tallest mountain in the neighborhood and had 'Breath Taking' view from three sides... There was enough space for a garden, several fruit trees and a small swimming pool at the Backyard'. There was room for a Swing Set and a small Play House, for our future Grandchild Eliyah, who would arrive several years later, after Karen received her credentials as a 'Rabbi' and settled down in Studio City, one street away from her childhood home... Eventually, years later it would be the very same neighborhood, where she would be living with Greg and our 'One and only' beloved Grand daughter Eliyah'...

                       Our newly built home, pool, garden and ' Karen's Playhouse' in Sherman Oak

  Al and I lived in our new home for many blissful years... It was a good life! Just as in our previous      home, this one, was also full with friends and visitors; who came from all over the world...Years later     after Al's passing, at the age of Eighty three, it was good to have Karen and her tiny family, live near      by... It would help me deal better with the loneliness I was left with, after my beloved husband's Al's departure... At one point, as my 80th birthday was approaching, I was asked by Karen, to give some thoughts and ideas, to the place I would like to celebrate it...  After considering several options, Karen  and I decided, that rather  then having the party in a restaurant, we would celebrate it at my present    house in Sherman Oaks, the place Al and I created together and enjoyed so much...

    Women only were invited... Among them several of Karen's school friends,who used to be frequent       visitors at our Studio City home... Since we had only one child, Al and I were always delighted to have   Karen's friends at our home! Her friends knew, that besides being a Psychologist, I was a Hypnotherapist   a fact which fascinated them...They often shared their problems with me and I loved to work with them (Free of charge!) After receiving their parents consent... In the following years, these former Teens, got married had kids and delighted me with an occasional visit ...Through out the years, after Al's passing Karen X would invite these friends to celebrate my birthday at our home, together with few of Albie and my friends:xX"Those who are still Ticking!" (As Al used to say) After considering several options for the party, Karen and I decided to have a "Five O'clock Tea", like the one I was introduced to, in my youth, during my first trip to England...

. Shira on Mother's day	Marcia and Shira playing "Twins"	With Karen on Shira's 80's birthday	With Etel

    Al's cousin Marcia, was a year younger then me... We always felt more like Sisters, then "Cousins          in Law"...The two of us had a lot in common: We were both teachers who loved to laugh ,were avid Readers', enjoyed Intellectual Discussions', Classical Music ,Theater, Movies and were sharing a similar playful (a 'bit childish') Sense of Humor...After settling in California, Al and I convinced Marcia, to move  from Florida to LA, where she became a 'Loving Aunt' to four years old Karen and was our closest Family Member! We celebrated together all the holidays and Birthday parties;. We were delighted to  have a family member living near us, beside the friends we made in Los Angeles. We were able to  "Import" Al's younger brother Steve (who just graduated from Law school) and several years later  Nephew Glen Deitsch, from new Jersey, who was happy to settle in Sunny California... We  finally had      a 'Small Family' to share with us Holidays, Anniversaries and other happy events...Years later Cousin Marcia's small family of three, left us to settle in Miami, to take care of her aging parents...We kept in touch by phone, emails and and visits back and fourth, but it was not the same as having them close by 

    Years later, I called Marcia, to ask if she could "Please come and help me, with the celebration of my  80's birthday"... Her answer was very short:"Love To!  Marcia was able to find in L.A, a restaurant which was serving (and delivering) Authentic English "High Tea"... Besides Tea, the menu offered small cakes named "Scones and Crumpets" which we jokingly named; "Stones and Trumpets"...There was a variety  of  'Open face sandwiches', as well as cookies and cakes... For this Special Occasion, I used the 'Fine China' Al and I received as our Wedding Gifts, which amazingly, survived our six moves: Puerto Rico Atlanta, Augusta, Miami and Los Angeles which would be our final destination...

   This party gave me the opportunity, to invite 'who ever was left' , from our old friends...As well as          a few previous clients, I befriended through out the years (in spite of the fact that "Psychologists are       not supposed to befriend their Clients"...)"Other guests were a few of Karen's friends, among them        her best friend Alison, from fourth grade; whom I nicknamed "My second daughter!" The "High Tea"   was delivered to our house, which was decorated with colorful flowers from our garden...

   I  also arranged for a Workshop about the "Power of Positive Thinking" which was given by Dr     Ethel.  Marcia ordered colorful hats, decorated with paper flowers,which the guests tried on and exchanged between them: "In order to match the colors of our outfits": The hats made the house look    like a lovely "Garden of Women"... It was the first party I hosted without Al (my husband and best friend  and couldn't help feeling sad; wishing he was there with us in spirit...My pain lifted, as I looked through the window at my granddaughter Eliyah and her best friend, shrieking with joy, as they were running in the garden, chasing butterflies with 'Moses' barking and running close behind.. For some reason, this memory is my Sweetest Memory from that day... I have to admit that after the guests left I began to feel lonely and  a bit sad... It was not easy admitting (even to myself) that I am getting old...X"I can't believe I am Eighty   I don't think I look a day older then sixty, right?" I asked my image in the mirror:X"Maybe even younger!x What do you think? But I recived no answetr... I wounder why?

 

 

                                                                           THE  END

 

As time goes by... V, X OO V

Hello everyone,

   My book was almost completed... It is was time to find a suitable publisher... I have been finding out     it  is not an easy task, especially during the Corona Pandemic, which seemed to be out of control... I    have been busy helping my clients to deal with their fears of this a new frightening disease, as well as taking care of my darling husband, whose health has been deteriorating fast. .Karen, with her baby girl  our beloved grand daughter Eliyah, were staying with us, since her Israeli father Ilan, got stuck in Israel because of the pandemic... Our sweet Grand child, became the main source of joy, while her bedridden grandfather; my dear husband Al ...  For quite some time, I have been hearing the Nagging voice, of my Inner Critic, saying :"Don't you think  it is about time, to turn this blog into a book?!" "Who has extra  time for it?" My 'Inner Complainer' was saying... But I could no longer ignore the needs of my Inner writer, storyteller and Poet, which was nagging me to:"Finally finish this book!"x One day I had a great idea; "Instead of starting to write a book, how about turning my Blog in to one! I could use what I have written so far, go ahead and do it!

  There was plenty to write about... I can clearly remember the day, when Al was watching the news   about the New Virus, which was spreading from China to the Far and Middle East, as well as to Europe moving on to Africa, South America, the U.S, Canada, New Zealand and Australia... We were watching on the T.V, the over-crowded hospitals, with the exhausted Doctors and Nurses, trying to take care of the sick and the dying, looking as if they were on the verge of collapsing themselves... The Schools, Malls and Stores, as well as Theaters and Restaurants were empty... Terrified people around the world, were learning a new word: "Lock down"!  Almost overnight, Life as we knew it began to change into Unfamiliar Reality of people with Masks, standing in long lines for the Supermarkets, only to find most of the shelves bare and drive back home, empty handed on the deserted freeways ...

Savta Shira 

Grand child Eliya   

  Terrified people were locked up in their homes; hiding from the 'Corona Virus', the Unknown Monster, which came to darken our previous clear blue sky... I began the job of turning my blog into a book... My inspiration was 'The  Dairy of was Ann Frank'... Just  like her, I was about twelve years old when I began to write a dairy and kept on writing, in a thick notebook, with golden letters on the cover  I would Finlay 'graduating' to an old type writer and few years later to an  Electronic One, until we came to the age of Computers; just in time to begin writing my Blog which was the foundation or my future book...

   Shortly after the Corona Virus arrived at the United States, I had a great idea! Since most people were staying home, afraid to get out of their houses, it may be a golden opportunity, to go over the posts in my blog and begin to make the necessary corrections, in order to turn it into a book... My young friend Sean (whom I nicknamed "Sean-Sean") has been helping me with the technical part' of decorating the pages with photographs, which would help to break, the monotony of the written words and add some color to the story of my life... In a way, this pandemic, especially the Lock down; arrived as a blessing which gave  me the time I need to turn my blog into a book... I have been sitting for hours (sometimes late into the night) going over the posts, changing sentences, correcting spelling, as well as grammar mistakes (After  all English is not my Mother's Tongue... ) At my Inner Child's request (rather Nagging)I began 'decorating'  the pages of this future book, with photographs and caricatures, in order to add some color and humor to  the more Serious Topics. After all, moving from one state of being into another (3rd to the 5th Dimension) is not such a simple or easy matter... 

   As I review my blog, I come to realize that (most of the time) I had a good and blissful life; where my  'dreams', wishes and expectations were (almost always ) Fulfilled X Above all, I am fortunate to have my grand daughter Eliyah, who has been filling my heart with love and joy, especially after her Grandfather (Papa) my husband Al past away... I am so happy that Al was fortunate enough, to enjoy our precious Eliyah, for the last three years of his life! I often think about the week before Al's passing, when we celebrated his 85th birthday at home. Al was sitting in his large armchair, supported by pillows with Karen, myself and a handful of family members sitting around him...When his favorite chocolate cake arrived, we started to sing: "♪ Happy birthday dear Papa happy birthday to you!.... Eliyah put a piece      of cake in Al's mouth, licking the chocolate from her small fingers... I was watching Al, looking at her with a smile, his eyes full of tenderness and love and I had to wipe my tears... Several days after Al's passing, we celebrated Eliyah's third birthday... After all "Life must go on!" Karen and I where telling   each other and wiping our tears...

   A few mouths after starting kindergarten, Ellie decided to wear "A different shoe on each foot!" When   I tried to convince her that people do not do that, she told me:" I Do Savta! It is My Style!" After several attempts of trying to talk my 'Stubborn Granddaughter' to"Please change your shoes!" and receiving the powerful and final answer: "No! I already told you Savta, this is My Style now!" I decided to give up:"If you can't win - join in!" I told myself and decided to "copy" Ellie's "style", by wearing shoes of different colors as well; to her great delight!  People have been saying that Eliyah looks very much like me (to my great delight!) But she insists she looks just like "Ima"; her mom and my daughter...

About a year after Al's passing, a welcomed addition joined our tiny family...His name is Gregory and he  is Karen's "New Man!  Greg is adored by Karen and Eliyah, as well as by me, who is delighted to look at  this Loving Triangle...Observing the three of them together and witnessing their playful interaction, is my Moment of Happiness!' X This "Threesome loving combination", is a wonderful answer for my "Grand Motherly" prayers... Seeing them together helps me deal with the emptiness, which was left in my heart after losing Al, my husband of fifty yeas...

Karen and Greg		Ellie's shoe style	'Savta' "Copying" Ellie's style	The Happy Family!

    I would now like to share with you, several amazing photographs, sent by an anonymous reader            of my blog...These photos took me back many years ago, to the time I was serving in the military and   was In charge of 'Reserved Solders', in case of an attack by one (or more) of our 'Next Door' Arab neighbors... I was sitting at my desk, in front of the only small window in the room, looking at the walls which were "decorated" from floor to ceiling, with files of Reserved Solders,who completed their two years of military service and were required to attended "Training" once a year, in order to be ready for 'Mobilization, in case of an attack by one of our three Arab Neighbors'; Egypt, Jordan and  Syria...       

  These Arab countries, never liked our Jewish Israel, tried to destroy it three times and Failed!...The whole world (except the Arabs) celebrated with us our Victory! I was often going to the one window, in my small office and looked through the one window, at the and peaceful blue Mediterranean Sea; wishing I could escape my dreary office and go for a refreshing swim, in the inviting blue Mediterranean water of  below and get away for a while, from the grey and choking room, I was 'locked up in'...X"It feels as if I am a Prisoner here!" I complain to my superior officer, who smiled his fatherly smile before saying to me "Don't  ever forget that Israel is our only country! We were born here and should gladly protect it, even if it means that we have to fight against all our Hateful Neighbors!"

   After my commanding officer left the room, I walked to the window and took in a deep breath of salty air, then walked back to my desk, to look at the paper work in front of me...I then too a blank  piece of paper and began to write a poem, as I often did when I felt 'down and alone'... The only thing I remember from this poem, is one line:"Butterflies are flowers yearning to be free!" X The photos below may be such flowers, which amazingly resemble people, babies, birds, monkeys and hearts. Most probably such flowers always existed, but were not noticed until this one incredible unknown photographer, brought them to our attention... Unfortunately I was unable to find out the source of these amazing photos, so I would be able  to acknowledge, congratulate and give thanks to the gifted artist who took them...

White egret	Hawks	Parrots	Swooping eagle	Monkey	Babies in baskets

Ballerina	Lady taking a bow	Dancing friends	Naked men	Beggar	Hearts

With Love and Light,
Shira